Q: How to be right and kind at the same time?
Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar: Being right does not mean being harsh and being kind
righteousness is not just aggression. Unfortunately, today, when we are right we get
aggressive. It need not be, it should not be. In fact, aggression only shows our
weakness; our lack of faith in our own power. Isn’t this strange? You think that the
powerful will be aggressive? No! People who feel they have no power, or they have
lost power, they become aggressive. Just look a little deep into it. When do you get
aggressive? When you can’t do things easily. When things can happen easily, will
you get aggressive?
So when you don’t have confidence in your power or the power of your being then
you get aggressive. I know it is difficult to get that!
When all these things were happening in Delhi, someone asked me, "How were you
so cool Gurudev? We were all tensed!"
I know everything will happen well. And when I know that everything will happen,
then what is the point of becoming aggressive, or upset, or sad, or unhappy.
When you know the power within you, you don’t get aggressive. The powerful don’t
get aggressive. Who gets aggressive? When you feel that the situation, person,
people are beyond your control, or you feel that it is not possible. Or when you feel
that you are smaller than the situation, then you become aggressive. I think you
should ponder on this. Often you see a person with aggression, you feel that he is
powerful. He is really not!
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